I've heard (or read) from people telling the collective "us" to stop whining about gas prices as long as we are still eating out 3 or 4 times a week, etc. I find such comments, especially when seasoned with little grace, to be offensive. Have these people been to the gas station or grocery store lately? How can anyone say things aren't that bad!
I met an elderly couple at a gas station about a month ago. They shared that they only go out when absolutely necessary. After putting $60 in his truck, it still wasn't full. We fail to think of all those the rising prices effect. This couple were becoming shut-ins before their time. And that's not the only pinch they feel.
Many of us have created habits, a certain level of lifestyle. Not anything lavish, but free. Free to buy that book without thinking twice about it kind of free. If we make sacrifices, we should be okay. Generations before us know what it is to sacrifice, but we often don't. But those sacrifices aren't easy! We're breaking habits. Even when we're happy to make sacrifices where possible, it's not an overnight event. There's much to learn, remember, etc. What we need is grace. Grace given as we see others trying to cut corners. Encouragemet. Point them in a better direction. Remind them of their goals, etc.
Where do you feel the pinch? In what ways will you be learning new "saving" skills?
Remember, when your friend blows it and goes out to eat, again, after swearing it off, don't chastise her. Love her, help her, learn together, be accountable to one another. Don't write her off because she's having a hard time remembering all the new tips to saving money!
This is so great! Just today I was going to pick up McDonald's for me and my little one.
ReplyDeleteBefore we left this morning I went to grab a 10 dollar bill and then stopped myself...we will eat at home-and that's what we did!